Hokay. Full disclaimer: i myself have not had astral sex in almost two decades. Yes, that does mean some of my earliest experiences were astral. No, we will not go into the weird shit little Mara got up to.
It would help to know more of what you want to know? But…i mean, there’s dream sex, when you slip free and get it on in your sleep (which is what most of my experience is) and that can be hard to control if you’re not already a lucid dreamer. There’s projective sex, when you leave your body and bang one out on the astral plane. Projection is a bitch without a natural gift, a shit ton of luck, or years of practice. I’ve accidentally done it, maybe three or four times and cannot for the life of me figure out what I did to make it happen.
Then there’s the simplest, easiest way, which is sort of daydreaming with intent. You focus on creating an astral space around you and instead of sending your whole astral body out, you just send your mind. It takes some practice, but we all daydream, so it takes less practice than you’d think.
Honestly, if you can create a space where you’re comfortable getting busy and then summon/call a demon/spirit into that space, you may get some hot spirit tail. Again, practice is needed to get to the point of being able to sustain a space and allow a demon to act freely within it, it’s a fine balance, but you can get there.
Oh, and…if you want to seek out sex specifically, it helps to, uh, stimulate yourself while you’re sending your mind into the astral. Like energy calls to like, so it’s like flicking on a red lightbulb on the front porch, it lets the demons know you’re, um, open for naughtiness.
Lastly, i don’t personally think succubi and incubi are all that dangerous, but there’s hundreds of years of lore says otherwise, so take some precautions. There’s pelnty of lore about cambions and astral pregnancy, and astral STD’s are totally a thing. Cleanse before and after, and maybe put together some wards to keep ugly shit from clinging to you.
Good luck, friendo!
So yes, this thing. I’m going to out myself as a possibly crazy weirdo by commenting on this, but so be it.
Please do not read more if you hate hearing about weird God sex. I’m sharing these experiences because when I started having them I felt really vulnerable and kinda nuts, so if you’re feeling the same way right now? Welcome, this is for you. You’re not alone.
Hot mess of demon sex and UPG below.
I’ve been having kind of a lot of sex with Lucifer, Naamah, Agrat and Lilith lately. Most of it has been done via the “daydreaming with intent” method. How do you know it’s real and you aren’t just fantasizing/making shit up? Well, that can be hard, and to be honest, you can never be sure. But, if the things that happen in this astral daydream surprise you, and are not things that you willed, you’re probably on the right track. You shouldn’t feel like you’re in full control, you should feel like you’re interacting with another being that has a will of their own. You know. As in physical sex.
Stimulating yourself while going astral cruising is definitely a solid tip. Honestly every time I travel to my temple during a wank I’ve had somebody pop in to share the fun. I’ve even started referring to my vibrator as my “broom” because straddling it is so helpful for flying off to astral!
My succubi experiences have been energizing rather than draining, however… I have never actually cum during those experiences yet. But the succubi have. So this might be about me receiving their orgasmic energy rather than having them take mine. Just a hypothesis based on UPG. (One of these days, when I am feeling brave and have time to crash, I plan to test this theory and let one of them make me cum my brains out, although hopefully not my life and my entire soul.) Naamah and Lilith double-teamed me one time and very deliberately left me hanging in a dominant tease-and-deny fashion, which was frustrating and hot as hell, but it might also have been doing me a solid. (They also absolutely high-fived as they walked away from my bound and shivering astral avatar. It took me a little while to figure out that I could free myself using my will. Astral travel can be a bit like Neo trying to figure out The Matrix.)
Respecting succubi as powerful beings who have many domains other sex goes a long way. I made the mistake of sharing some of my succubi experiences with some occultist fuckboi, and he said something like “I’ve always wanted to bag one of those!” Ugh. No. Succubi are so much more than astral booty calls. In the case of the consorts, they are the literal queens of Hell. It’s best to approach them with humility and devotion and treat sex as an offering. Don’t make them want to eat you or inflict scary chronic sleep paralysis weirdness on you. I’m damn sure that the positivity of my experiences with them is because I am on their “team” as it were, and got to know them first before sending them the spiritual equivalent of a gross Tinder message. Have some respect, they’re infernal Gods for fuck’s sake.
I also want to mention that Lucifer, Naamah, Lilith and Agrat (I haven’t gotten down with Eisheth yet) are all creative, weird, profound astral lays. It’s gonna feel like more than getting off, and it might get a little scary. For example, Lucifer in the form of Baphomet absolutely broke my neck and flung me down a flight of stairs like a ragdoll one time, but it was fine because I instantly healed, and also it was hot to me because I’m a kinky disaster. They may appear in weird forms (see above). Their bodies, and your body, may work in weird ways because the rules of the physical realm do not apply. (Astral deep-throating can be REEEAAALLY deep, hooray!) Their genitals, or even your genitals, may be sort of… unexpectedly shaped.
More UPG– generally Lucifer and even the consorts are kind of worship-averse and don’t encourage submissive prostrations before them. However, they appear to be fine with it in the bedroom! This means my astral experiences with them have been an excellent and mutually enjoyable vent for my inevitable feelings of slavish adoration towards the Infernal Ones. In other words, kneeling to Lucifer seems to be perfectly fine as long as you’re sucking his dick.
I know this might sound nutso to some. But that said, there’s rather a lot of lore (witch’s sabbath, anyone?) about Satan and demons enjoying sex with human devotees. In fact, the only times Satan has ever asked ME for anything, it’s been sex. Your mileage may very, but it seems to be his preferred offering from me, and I’m pretty sure I’m not alone in that. The lore would imply that I am definitely NOT.
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